2019–Year in Review

2019 has been one of the best years of my life. I turned 30 and had the best birthday ever. Lost 40 pounds and tried to maintain a healthy lifestyle. Set a goal for myself to walk at least 30-50 miles a week. Pushed myself to do things out of my comfort zone. Took my first flight lesson and absolutely loved it. Traveled to UK for the first time and visited Germany and Austria. Went to some of the best events and saw some beautiful art. Had a solo art exhibit and represented Pakistan at the Nassau County Legislature. Did some amazing photoshoots. Attended my best friend, Daisy’s wedding. Reconnected with my friends and family I lost touch with. Met so many incredible people and made tons of new friends.

As amazing as 2019 was, I lost my best friend, Laraib in November. I was absolutely devastated and shattered to pieces. It was one of the most difficult times of my life. Laraib’s death reconnected everyone who has known him since childhood and all friends came together to mourn his loss. His death made a huge impact on me and changed my perspective on so many different things. I may have lost Laraib but I found two friends who helped me tremendously to go through this difficult time. They are not just friends, they are now my best friends and I adore them both to pieces.

Laraib, not a single day goes by when I don’t think about you. I miss you so much. Love you always, meray jiggar.

Your dost billi ki ghosht,
Rubaa